The Season of Waiting

“But about that day and hour no one knows, neither the angels of heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father. Matthew 24:36

Let’s face it; we are not good at waiting. We want everything right this second. Instant news, instant communication, insta pot we want it all, and we want it right now. We all seem to be moving at 90 miles per hour with no let-up in sight. We move from one thing to another but never stop to enjoy that thing we are moving from.

Thursday is Thanksgiving, and I am already seeing Christmas decorations starting to appear. I used to be a bit more militant about not decorating for Christmas until at least after Thanksgiving, but I am beginning to let up just a bit. If putting your Christmas decorations up and listening to Christmas music brings you joy and brightens your day, then, by all means, decorate.

But remember that between Thanksgiving and Christmas is the season of Advent, and the season of Advent asks us to slow down and wait.

I recall, as a child having to wait on Christmas morning to open gifts. My brothers and I would wake up but would have to wait whilst my parents and grandmother made coffee and took their places in our living room. So we waited and opened the presents in our stockings, some patiently, others not so much.

It is unclear when the Christian Church began to commemorate Advent. Still, it has been around since at least the Council of Tours in 567, when monks were directed to fast during December in anticipation of the Nativity. Advent is a penitential season much like that of Lent, but it is also a season of hope, hope in the coming of the Christ Child.

Advent is a time of waiting, waiting for the gift of the Christ child, but it is also a time of reflection and affirmation.

Each week of Advent has a theme for us to reflect on. We begin in hope and faith. Faith is the “assurance of things not seen,” Hope comes when we imagine new possibilities. I hope for a better world and the possibility that we will all use our talents to make that happen.

Following hope comes peace. One of the titles of Jesus is the Prince of Peace, for that is what Jesus brings peace. Peace is an ideal, but it is an ideal worth all the effort. However, peace begins with each of us, and we achieve that peace by slowing down and taking time to appreciate what we have and those around us.

Halfway through our journey, we come upon the theme of Joy. The Gospel for this day is Mary’s Song of joy, knowing that she will soon deliver her child and how blessed she feels being chosen by God for this great honor. Anticipation is building as we get closer, and our hearts begin to overflow with joy.

During the final week of Advent, we reflect upon the theme of Love. If I had to summarize the message of the Gospel and the Nativity in one word, it would be love. God’s love for all of humanity is manifested in the birth of the Christ child, for once again, the creator is walking with creation, and the great chasm has been repaired.

The commemoration of Advent began as a penitential season with prayer and fasting, but now it has all but disappeared from the landscape of our faith. These weeks leading up to Christmas are an essential time to slow down and spiritually prepare for the coming season. Do yourself a favor and slow down; you will appreciate Christmas much more if you do.

Open Mouthed Tourists

Luke 21:5-19

A few years ago, I worked as a tour guide at the Old North Church in Boston’s North End. You know the place; it is famous for a couple of lights in the window and a poem. People would visit this renowned church from all over the world, and most are surprised to discover that it is still an active congregation.

I would often get asked, when was the last time a service was held here? To which I would reply, last Sunday at 11:00. There would be this look of astonishment on their faces, and many would just walk away. It seemed hard to comprehend that, except for a few years during the Revolutionary War, services were held at Old North every Sunday.

However, one of my favorite stories involved the painting hanging on the wall above the altar. As fitting its location, it’s a painting of Jesus, sitting at a table with bread and wine before him. As I mentioned, it hangs above the altar as a clear indication of communion. Every couple of weeks, a tourist would point to that painting and ask if that was Paul Revere. I would chuckle and say no, it’s Jesus.

On one particular day, I was feeling rather cheeky, and when I was asked the question about the painting, I replied that no, it was not Paul Revere; it was Jesus who completed his assigned mission. I received some rather interesting stares, and I could tell it was all being worked out in their minds.

People are easily distracted from the reality that is going on all around them. We see what we want to see and ignore what we do not want to see. We have an idea, a preconceived notion of what something is or is not, and our minds fill in the rest. For example, tourists come to Boston to see historical sights; they do not expect that any of these places are still being used for what they were initially built for, including a church.

In today’s Gospel passage from Luke, we listen in on a conversation Jesus is having in the Temple. The Temple they were standing in was the Second Temple built about 538 BCE. The first Temple, the Temple of Solomon, was built in 957 BCE and replaced the tabernacle, which was constructed under the direction of Moses. Unfortunately, this Temple was sacked a few decades later, and it was not until 538 BCE that a new one was built.

Details of the construction of the Second Temple can be found in the Book of Ezra. Construction of the Second Temple took 21 years to complete after being called for by Cyrus the Great. In comparison, the Washington National Cathedral in Washington, DC, took 83 years to complete, and Boston’s Big Dig took 15 years. However, I am not sure the construction of the Temple made as much of a mess of the traffic in Jerusalem as the Big Dig did in Boston.

When picturing the Temple, one must imagine more than one building. Yes, the place of worship, the building that held the altar of sacrifice, was one, but the Temple precincts comprised many buildings. But the Temple was the grandest of all the buildings and the largest.

Now, Jesus is sitting in this building with his followers, and he is talking about the destruction of this building. They would know the history and that it has been destroyed before, but they cannot imagine it happening again. Those with Jesus naturally want to know when this will happen and will there be any signs, and Jesus tells them not to be distracted.

He goes on to describe what some of those distractions will be. Beware, Jesus says of those who will come and say that the end is near. There was a time when the world was coming to an end just about every week. One TV preacher or another, no doubt in need of a new plane or an expansion of their mansion, would say that the world was ending, and you needed to send them all of your money. I’m not sure why since the world was ending, but I will let you meditate on that.

Even today, people are constantly looking for signs, but even Jesus tells us that he does not know, so don’t worry.

Jesus says, “When you hear of wars and insurrections, do not be terrified, for these things must take place first, but the end will not follow immediately.” Then he said to them, “Nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom; there will be great earthquakes, and in various places famines and plagues; and there will be dreadful portents and great signs from heaven.”

Then Jesus offers these words of comfort, “But before all this occurs, they will arrest you and persecute you; they will hand you over to synagogues and prisons, and you will be brought before kings and governors because of my name.” So, we have that to look forward to.

All distractions.

Distractions are designed to make us look the other way. Make us give up and choose a different direction or give up all together. But what Jesus offers us today is hope, which we must cling to.

Hope is an essential aspect of the Christian life. Actually, I think hope is an important aspect of life in general.

We had a national election on Tuesday, and it might have gone differently than you had hoped. I remarked that the critical part was that the system worked and there was no violence.

The next day I noticed some prominent people making fun of some candidates and not picking at their policies or lack of policies but at physical features of physical disabilities. This angered and depressed me that in 2022 we have come to this. Why is it that every disagreement was to devolve into childish name-calling? Disagree with the other side and what they believe, but when the conversation devolves to Middle School name-calling, it is all over.

As I am prone to do on occasion, I expressed my thoughts in the social media realm and, as one can imagine, was greeted with opposition from some quarters. The essence of the conversation boiled down to the fact that people are so angry and divided that this is what is left. My response was that I disagreed, that adults can, and should, rise above petty nonsense and that we agree on more than we think. The disagreement comes on how we fix what needs fixing, not that things need to be fixed.

The conversation continued, mainly with the people who disagreed with me, restating their objections. In the end, I was told that this was an idyllic view of humanity, with which I disagreed. I said I disagreed because I hoped for a better tomorrow. I have hope because I have no other choice. Hope drives me forward because hope brings life, and the opposite is unacceptable.

I will admit that it might be a little “pie in the sky,” but I honestly believe we can change.

I recently began a new job as Spiritual Advisor at a drug and alcohol treatment center. For many people, this is their last stop before jail or something worse. This past week we talked about gratitude and the power that changing the way we think about things can change the world. I came across a quote that impacted me, “if you are breathing, you can make a change.” It does not matter your situation, and maybe worse days are ahead, but if you have breath left in your lungs, you cannot give up; you can make a change.

Jesus never promised that our lives would be easy. In fact, he said on several occasions that if you follow him, life will be difficult. However, the promise that Jesus made and makes is that although life will not be easy, he will be right there with you.

Jesus came to earth the way he did; he was born sort of life us. He lived his life the way people of his age did. He fell in love, had his heart broken, stubbed his toe, skinned his knee, and had friends and relatives die. He was persecuted, tried in a mock trial, and sentenced to death. All this was done so we can relate. God took on the frailty of human flesh, so we had someone to show us the way through the good times and the bad, which involves hope.

Friends, last week I challenged us to make a difference, to work to bring God’s kingdom to earth, not in the future but now. We cannot wait for some politician to do it; we need to do it. We need to make it happen, and we have to have hope that it will happen.

Do not be distracted by what the world wants, do not be distracted by what you see and hear on the news. Instead, keep your eyes on Jesus and remember, if you have air in your lungs, you can make a change.

Amen.

Who is a Veteran? Remarks at the Town of Hull Veterans Day Ceremony

Reverned clergy, elected officials, fellow veterans, citizens of the great Town of Hull, and my fellow Americans. Thank you to our Veterans Agent, Paul Sordilio, for asking me to come here today and to share a few thoughts about Veterans Day.

A few years ago, I found myself at Arlington National Cemetery. Although I had been to Washington several times before this, I had never visited Arlington. It is a quiet place of reflection where one can hear the wind passing through the leaves and, on occasion, horses’ hooves as they carry another veteran to their final resting place.

As I walked the lanes, pausing now and again to wonder about those buried there, I was reminded of the poem, In Flanders Field. We will hear it read later in this ceremony, so I will not read it now except to say that those marble stones placed row upon row reminded me of the poppies.

Arlington is a fantastic place for the private soldier buried alongside the general, and such care is shown in each place. I watched in silence as the guard changed at the Tomb of the Unknown and marveled at how the stones beneath the feet of the guards is worn from their pacing in all sorts of weather, constantly guarding those whose name is known only to God.

One cannot help but feel a sense of gratitude begin to well up inside of oneself for their lives and their dedication to the service of their country. They lie in peace, for their time of fighting has ended.

But I am reminded that today, and this might sound strange, it is not about them. Yes, we need to keep their memories green in our minds and our hearts, but today is about the living, about my fellow veterans standing before me, and to you, I say thank you. Thank you for your dedication and thank you for your duty.

At the 11th Hour, on the 11th Day, of the 11th Month, the guns went silent, and the War to End All Wars came to a close. The guns fell silent, and the long process of restoring peace began. The following year, Armistice Day was commemorated for the first time to remember those who had fallen and in celebration of the victory, they helped to achieve.

An Act of Congress in 1938 made November 11th an official holiday as “A day to be dedicated to the cause of world peace.” And in 1954, the name was changed to Veterans Day in honor of all veterans who have served in times of peace and in times of war.

Although we come from varied backgrounds, we share the ideals of duty, honor, and country. Veterans have been answering the call of our country since those first days on a village green not far from here. They have given the best years of their lives in service of a people and to secure those freedoms that we all hold dear: life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. We owe these men and women more than one day to say thanks, for we are indeed the home of the free because of the brave.

There is one group of veterans who answered their country’s call that until recently was not shown the respect they deserved. These men and women responded to their countries’ call to fight a war that no one wanted to fight, not that anyone wanted to fight a war. They answered the call and did their duty, but when they returned, the country that called upon them did not treat them very well. If you are a Vietnam Veteran, please stand as you are able so that I might say thank you for your service. You did what so many did not want to do. Thank You!

So, who is a veteran? A veteran is a person who has served their country. Many fought in wars, and many, like me, served during peacetime. We served on land, on the sea, and in the air. Many continue to serve their community as elected officials or volunteers.

Many of us were young when we joined up. I was 18 years old and had never been away from home. I remember that day in September when I raised my right hand and swore an oath with the words first used in 1789.

“I do solemnly swear (or affirm) that I will support and defend the Constitution of the United States against all enemies, foreign and domestic; that I will bear true faith and allegiance to the same; and that I will obey the orders of the President of the United States and the orders of the officers appointed over me, according to regulations and the Uniform Code of Military Justice. So help me God.”

That oath did not expire when my enlistment expired, and I renewed that oath years later was I became a commissioned officer.

I was excited and a little nervous about being on this new adventure. I was not sure what to expect. We boarded buses that took us to Logan airport for our flight. I had only flown a couple of times before, so this was exciting. We arrived and boarded another bus to take us to our destination. After what seemed like an endless amount of paperwork, we turned in for the night, and I had a chance to reflect on all that had happened.

It all changed at 4:30 the following day when the lights suddenly burst on, and a galvanized trash can came bouncing down the aisle of the barracks. I had no idea where or who I was, but I was being yelled at for something.

We made friends we would have for life and friends who understood what we went through because they were there. Friends we trusted to have our backs when the times got tough and can still count on today. Our time in the service changed us forever.

Many of us received wounds from our time in the service. Some of those wounds can be seen, but many cannot. Physical wounds heal over time, and thanks to advancements in medicine, limbs can be replaced and function almost as good, if not better, than the original.

But time does not heal all wounds, and many, far too many of our brothers and sisters suffer from constant reminders of the things they saw and they the things they did, and we owe them so much more than we have given them; we can do better, and we must do better.

Data shows that on a single night in January of 2022, 33,136 veterans were homeless. That number is down from previous years but is still way too high. On average, 17.2 veterans commit suicide each day, each day! Although that number is down, it is still way too high. We must do better.

There is a cost to war that is not always discussed, and that is the human cost. Unfortunately, for many of my fellow veterans, their war has not ended; their battle rages on as they seek the care they deserve in a system so underfunded that it is overwhelmed and sinking under its own weight. Thanks to caring people like Craig Wolfe, our veteran’s agent, Paul Sordilio, and so many others, Hull does a beautiful job caring for our veterans, but we need to do more.

Friends, if you want to thank a vet today, you need to be their voice and advocate and work to secure the benefits and care they deserve. When they stand, raise their hands, and swear the oath to defend us, they need to know that we will protect them when they return. These men and women stand on walls, in the desert sand, and on the decks of ships, and they have our backs the least we can do is to have their backs when they return.

So today, as you go about your day, remember to thank a vet. And tomorrow, when you see that veteran standing on the street corner with the cardboard sign asking for a few dollars, give, and thank them for their service. Talk to Craig Wolfe about the items he is collecting for the Veterans at the VA in Brockton and give. Maybe stop by a cemetery, find a veteran’s grave, and say thank you.

But more important than all of that is to be their voice. So pick up the phone and call those you elect to represent you. Thank them for all they have done for our Veterans in the past and insist that we need to do more.

Thank you, Town of Hull, for the care you provide for our Veterans. Thank you for being here today. God bless all of you. God Bless the Town of Hull. And God Bless America.

Sermon: Man Out on a Limb

Luke 19:1-10

Two kittens shut down the B and Q lines of the New York Subway system for about two hours one day a few years back. The B and Q are two of the main lines that run from Brooklyn into the heart of Manhattan. A two-hour disruption will cause a problem, no matter what time it is.

One morning, a Thursday at 11 a.m., two scared kittens were spotted running down the tracks right next to the third rail. That’s the one that carries the power, 600 volts – not transformer power, but enough to use up all nine lives. So, they decided to cut the power to the whole line. And for almost two hours, the commuters and subway officials waited while a few went on a subway safari to rescue the flustered felines. But, alas, the kittens managed to stay out of reach long enough that the disruption was no longer tenable. So, since the kittens weren’t in visible danger, they returned power to the rail and started the local trains and eventually the express trains but issued an alert inviting the drivers to keep a lookout for the strays.

Naturally, in a day of instant commentary on anything and everything, the opinions were many and various. From the animal lover who praised the compassion of the administrators – or questioned why they gave up so soon just to keep the trains running on time (with the inevitable Mussolini quote tossed in) to the commuters who were patient or not, and the conspiracy theorists who speculated that terrorists in catsuits were behind it all, not to mention the anti-government voices who blamed the president at the time for letting the cat out of the bag. Bah-dum-bum.

The argument centered around one point. Were they worth it? And before you get all heated up, let’s make a shift here. We’re not talking about kittens on a subway track. We are talking about a little guy out on a limb.

Zacchaeus is an interesting character. He is not only a tax collector but the chief tax collector. So, as you can imagine, he was not well-liked in his community for two reasons. One, he was the tax man. Two, being the tax man meant you sided with the government over your fellow Jews. We can infer from what is written about these guys that most of them were corrupt and took more than they reported.

I have shared before about my experiences in Romania. I helped run a nonprofit there for a few years and would often visit the various sites we were supporting. After a few years of hitching rides, I decided it was time for me to drive. You think driving here is bad…

Anyway, if you violated one of the many written and unwritten traffic laws in the country, you, as one would imagine, would get pulled over by the police and issued a citation. You paid the fine to the police officer right there. You did not go to court and hope to have it dismissed; nope, it was cash on the barrel head.

They had these little coupon books and would tear out a coupon that would match the fine. So say the fine was $5, the police officer would tear our 5 one dollar coupons and give them to you. Of course, once back at the station, the police officer would have to reconcile his bool with the cash.

You did not always get the correct number of coupons to match the fine. It was a very different situation if you were an American and had American dollars—sort of like Zacchaeus.

So, Luke sets the stage for us. Again, Zacchaeus is the chief tax collector. He is the one that would come to your house and take all you had if you owed the government. He was the guy that recruited all the other guys, and he was rich. In Luke’s gospel, things don’t always end well for the rich, so immediately, we get an idea in our minds where this is going. But is it?

Zacchaeus hears that Jesus is coming to town and decides he wants to see him. Most rich people would send a memo and ask Jesus to go to their office to see them, but Zacchaeus does not do that. Instead, he runs, not walks but runs down the street where Jesus is going to be passing by. Keep in mind Zacchaeus, although despised, is still a pillar of the community, and he is running down the street to see some passing evangelist. Then it gets even crazier.

Because, as Luke mentions, he is “short of stature,” Zacchaeus, the great man has to climb a tree so he can get a glimpse of Jesus.

Now, we need to take a brief pause here. We have no idea why Zacchaeus has decided that he needs to see Jesus. Notice scripture does not say he wants to speak with Jesus, get a blessing from Jesus, or anything else. Zacchaeus wants to “see” Jesus. Maybe he is curious about what this is all about. Perhaps he does not want to be left out of the water cooler conversation at the tax office the next day. Whatever his motivation, nothing will get in his way.

Here comes Jesus. People are all over, some shouting, some looking on with skepticism, and Zacchaeus up in his tree. Jesus stops in the road, looks up at this curious little man in a tree, and calls to him, “Zacchaeus, hurry and come down, for I must stay at your house today.” Jesus calls him by name and says that he “must” stay at his house. We do not know why Jesus singled out Zacchaeus, but he did right there in front of everyone. Jesus is going to stay in the home of the most despised man in town.

Again, we don’t know Zacchaeus’s motivation. All Luke says is that he wanted to see Jesus. “Trying to see who Jesus was” (verse 3). Why? Was it a change of heart? Was he worried about competition? Was it hope or fear? Or a little of both? We don’t know. And apparently, that doesn’t matter.

Now, this is the real curious part of the story. The transformation, the change in behavior, the giving away of half of what he has, and the desire to pay back four times if, notice he does not admit to anything here if he has defrauded anyone. All of this happened because Jesus said he was coming to dinner. So Zacchaeus came down that tree transformed.

At least there is the appearance of a change. We have to take a deeper dive into the words being used here. Zacchaeus tells Jesus that he “will give” and he “will give back,” but the original text says, “I give” and “I give back,” not future but present. Is Zacchaeus one of the good guys? Is this way Jesus is coming to his house?

The crowd certainly does not think so. They start to grumble when Jesus says he is going to Zacchaeus’ house for dinner. “He has gone to be the guest of one who is a sinner.”

The crowd is not happy that Jesus is going to dine with sinners. “He is not worthy of such an honor,” they say. Jesus, stay on course. Stay out of the gutters, off the side streets, out of the trees. Keep to your own kind. His kind, the sinner kind, is not worth bothering with.

But by going to Zacchaeus’ house, Jesus is saying he is my kind. A child of God. If Jesus ignores him, he ignores you. He did not come to ignore the ones willing to go out on a limb to see him—the ones who put their reputation on the line. The ones who throw proper decorum out the window and, with child-like ambition, climb a tree to get a glimpse of Jesus as he passes by.

Luke leaves us wondering what was in the mind of Zacchaeus when he ran down that street and climbed that tree. He does not leave any clues about his motivation. Zacchaeus took a chance; he risked it all to peek at Jesus.

No matter what, Zacchaeus is worth it, and so are you. No matter what anyone else thinks, we are worth the effort, the disruption, and the inconvenience of loving.

Now ask yourself this question of this passage: “Where are you in the story?” Are you standing with the crowd, shaking your head at those people who aren’t worth it? Or are you standing next to Jesus, inviting yourself into the homes of those others think are sinners? Or perhaps, are you too out on a limb, hoping for a glimpse of Jesus and a whole new way of living?

By the way, seven hours later, they found those kittens, named them Arthur and August, and decided they were worth it.

Amen

The Veil is Thinning

Halloween is just around the corner. Halloween is my wife’s favorite festival, and we have been decorating our house this past week. We decorate more for Halloween than any other festival, which is fun. This year, I made wooden tombstones that we have installed in our yard, and they have joined the skeletons and pumpkins that we usually use to decorate. Also, this year will be the first we take our daughter door-to-door trick-or-treating, which should be fun.

But there is more to this time of year than scary costumes and pumpkins.

The ancient Celtic festival of Samhain (SAH-win or SOW-win) is celebrated from sundown on October 31st until sundown on November 1st. Samhain is the last of the four great Celtic harvest festivals, the others being Imbolc (February 1st), Beltane (May 1st), and Lughnasadh (August 1st). Samhain is the halfway point between the autumn equinox and the winter solstice and was the time of the year when the cattle were brought back from their pasture for the winter.

Many rituals and traditions are associated with Samhain, like the lighting of bonfires. These bonfires were seen as protective and used to protect the cattle as they were brought back. There was also a cleansing element to these fires, with many associated rituals. It was believed that the bonfire would help to “beat back” the decay and darkness of the coming winter. Bonfires are symbolically used to “burn up and destroy all harmful influences.”

The smoke from these fires was thought to have protective properties. Wood would be gathered from each home in parts of Scotland to light a central bonfire. As the fire burned, people would lay on the ground as close to it as possible and let the smoke roll over them. As the smoke rolled over them, they would be cleansed and protected for the coming year. Others would run through or jump through the smoke for the same purpose.

In the early modern era, the tradition of guising began—Guising, when people would dress in costume and recite a verse in exchange for food. The practice of guising is where the modern American Halloween tradition of children dressing in costume and going door to door is derived.

But there is also a spiritual connection with Samhain. Samhain, like Beltane, is a liminal or threshold festival when the veil between this world and the next becomes thin, almost nonexistent. The Celts believed that the Aos Sí (sith in Scots), the spirits, or the fairies could more easily come into our world during this time of the year. The Aos Sí were believed to be fallen angels or Tuatha Dé Danann, meaning the “People of Danu.” Offerings of food and drink would be left to appease the Aos Sí and ensure that their livestock would survive the winter.

Winter, with its images of dying in nature, was seen as the most appropriate time of the year to honor the dead. The thinning of the veil meant that the souls of departed family members would visit their homes seeking hospitality. Places would be set for them at the table, and food would be left to eat. James Frazer (1922) suggests, “It was perhaps a natural thought that the approach of winter should drive the poor, shivering, hungry ghosts from the bare fields and the leafless woodlands to the shelter of the cottage.”

In Celtic mythology, apples are associated with the other world. For example, faces would be carved in apples, while on the back, the name of a dead person would be carved. Then, the apples would be taken to the woods or a field. Finally, a prayer would be said for the person named, and the apple would be left as an offering for the animals to eat.

In the 9th century, the Western Christian Church endorsed November 1st as All Saints Day; a day set aside to commemorate the saints of the Church, and November 2nd as All Souls Day, the day when prayers are offered for all of those who have gone before us to the other world.

This is a special time of the year for remembrance. Take some time to remember those who have gone before us in whatever tradition you practice. Visit the cemetery, attend a church service, carve an apple, whatever it is, remember.

Setting an Intention

For many of us, mornings can be a hectic time of the day. We are off to the races when our feet hit the floor. This morning, I had a dozen emails to answer and this essay to finalize before I finished my first cup of coffee. We get so caught up in life and our responsibilities that we never take the time to check in with ourselves. Setting an intention for the day is a great way to stop and check-in.

In my last essay, I wrote about the differences and similarities between prayer and meditation. Prayer is speaking, and meditation is listening not only to the voice from outside but from the voice inside. Meditation is that time to look at what is happening inside ourselves. You can read more about that here.

What is an intention? An intention is an aim or a purpose you plan to achieve. Intentions can be long-term or short-term, but intentions need to be specific and actionable. It’s nice to set an intention to lose weight or read more, but that is not specific enough. I intend to lose 10 pounds in the next month, or I intend to finish that book I started by the end of the week. Specific and actionable.

Setting intentions allows us to live our lives with purpose and helps us become more present with ourselves and our relationships. Long-term intentions are great, but focusing on a daily intention will keep us in check with ourselves and allow us to be more mindful during the day and focus on the kind of energy we want to attract and put out into the world.

But I want to take setting an intention to the next level by saying that the intention we set should be for the greater and higher good. Our life’s goal should be to live to our greater potential. We might not know what that is, and finding our potential is what the journey is all about. So the intentions we set, the energy we put out and attract, should always be focused on the idea that this is for the greater good of me and all. We will talk more about the greater and higher good in another essay.

So, how do we set an intention?

Setting an intention should take no more than five minutes and should align with your values and goals. The intention can be a guide to help you through the day as you make decisions. The intention is a reminder of your daily focus and check in at the end of the day.

Intentions can be written down or spoken. For example, if you keep a diary or daily planner, either written or electronic, you can write your intention as the first act of the day, so when you open your calendar or diary, it is right there.

 Begin by writing “Today I intend to …”

Think about these questions:

What kind of person do I want to be today?
What attitude do I want to have toward other people?
What do I need to commit to to live a meaningful life?
What do I need to focus on to achieve my goals?

Here are a few examples of daily intentions. Use these as a guide or, if it fits with your greater and higher good, use them.

Today, I intend to:

Stay focused on my to-do list
Be present in the moment
Stick up for my own beliefs
Listen to my intuition and let it guide me
Enjoy my creativity
Be intentional and organized with my work
Open myself to new possibilities without shutting myself down
Stay in my heart, not my head
Prioritize what matters most
Embrace change in all forms

That last one can be a real challenge!

After setting the intention, ask yourself why this intention is essential. What bigger goal or value is this connected to?

There are a few ways that will help you fulfill your intention. I mentioned writing it in your diary already, but you can also write it on a sticky note and put it on your computer screen or something you look at throughout the day. Set a reminder alarm on your phone and change the alarm name to the intention. Set the alarm to go off at the time of the day you are most prone to lose attention. Take a few moments to meditate on your intention. Repeat it as you are conscious of your breathing to set it in your mind.

At the end of the day, take a few moments to reflect on your intention. Did you uphold the intention? If not, do not feel bad; write down a few ways you can improve for tomorrow. Remember, this journey will take many roads with twists and turns, and there will be good days and bad. We set an intention, not as a way to beat ourselves up but to look towards improvement and seek our best selves, and live to our higher good.

Start small, and build each day.

Sermon: Itching Ears

2 Timothy 3:14-4:5

Once upon a time, a young couple got the news that they were expecting their first child. They welcomed this news with enthusiasm and open hearts. Then, they set about doing all the things new parents do, getting the house ready, thinking about names, wondering what the child would be like, and all the rest.

After the appropriate time, they told their families, who were equally joyous. The expectant grandparents were beaming with joy. They told their friends about the coming child and all the ways they would spoil this, their first. They, too, set about doing all the things one does to prepare for the birth of a child. They put child safety locks on their cabinets, moved all the junk out of the spare room to make way for a crib, and prepared themselves mentally and spiritually for what was ahead.

The day finally came, and the baby was born. The baby was healthy, and all was right with the world. The new parents brought their baby home and began to care for the child. All the everyday anxieties started. Am I doing this right and the rest? 3 am feedings, numerous diaper changes. 6 am feeding and more diaper changes. It was a somewhat normal life situation.

After several months, the parents and grandparents started to talk about having the child baptized. But, unfortunately, the young couple was not much for attending church like most young folx these days. Finally, however, the parents decided that they would baptize the child and decided to approach the church where the child’s mother was baptized.

The church was not far from where they lived, and the child’s mother had fond memories of growing up there and the love she felt from the community. So, they started to attend worship on Sundays. As anyone with a newborn knows, their lives are unpredictable, so regular attendance at anything can be challenging. Their attendance was sporadic at best. But they came when they could.

They decided to approach the minister about the baptism. They called the church and made an appointment. They arranged for a sitter to avoid being distracted during their meeting. They came to the minister’s office at the appointed time and began discussing the process of having their child baptized and formally welcomed into the family of God.

The minister shared what baptism is all about and asked questions to get to know the couple, as he was unfamiliar with them. After about an hour, the minister said that, unfortunately, he would not be able to baptize the child.

The minister told them that since they were not married and living together, they were sinners in the eyes of God. He said that if they got married, everything would be ok, and they could arrange to have the child baptized, but if they remained unmarried, there would be no baptism.

As one would imagine, the young couple was devastated. They had talked about getting married, but when they found out the child was coming, they turned all their attention to preparing for the birth. All their desires and wants took a back seat as their focus shifted away from themselves and onto this child coming into their lives. They had done everything right, but this minister told them that because they did not have a “piece of paper,” their child was not welcome into the family of God.

In the letter of Paul to Timothy that we heard read this morning, Paul warns Timothy to beware of distractions and to hold on to what you were taught. A distraction is a thing that prevents someone from giving full attention to something else, and we encounter them every day in our lives.

Paul tells Timothy that “all scripture is inspired by God and is useful for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, so that everyone who belongs to God may be proficient, equipped for every good work.” The key word in that sentence is “inspired.”

As I have said before, I believe, like Paul, God inspires all scripture, but God leaves the interpretation to humans. Sure, we pray for dive insight, but often, scripture is interpreted to suit a particular point of view. Some hold to the teaching in Leviticus on specific topics and believe there is no gray area. Still, when it comes to the words of Jesus about loving everyone, they claim there is nuance and that everyone does not mean everyone.

Some would instead focus on the wrathful, smiting God rather than the God that sent his only Son to show us a different way and path to follow. Instead, they would focus on some kingdom that will supposedly come rather than bringing that kingdom here and helping those who have less. Yes, God-inspired scripture, but man has screwed it up.

For Christians and United Methodists, in particular, scripture is the core of what we believe. When in doubt, check it out. All the doctrines, those fundamental truths of our belief, have a basis in scripture. Much of the Reformation was about getting back to the basics of scripture. The fight to publish the Bible in the people’s language was so that people could read for themselves and, with assistance, understand those things written there. I would venture to say that the Bible is the most studied and least understood book ever published, but there it is.

But John Wesley knew there was more.

Wesley was trained as a priest in the Anglican Church and, as such, grounded in the Anglican Theological Tradition. That tradition was based on the idea that scripture, tradition, and reason were what helped the stool of theological understanding stay upright.

Scripture was the basis; when interpreting scripture, one needs to look back through the lens of time and ask what the church thought about this and how it has been applied. But one cannot leave it there; one needs to use one’s mind and knowledge and learn to understand what is being said. Yes, there are some concrete, irrefutable beliefs of Christianity, but what do they mean?

Wesley believed that although a three-legged stool was solid and stable, a four-legged one was better, so to scripture, tradition, and reason, Wesley added experience the lived experience of the individual and the lived experience of the church. It is that experience that makes the difference. We know what it means and what the church has thought and taught about, but how do we experience it?

The challenge facing the church today has nothing to do with old buildings and fewer people in the seats; the challenge is how do we take something more than 2,000 years old and make it relevant in a world constantly telling us to find the answers somewhere else. We have those itchy ears Paul was warning about, and we are looking for a way to scratch that itch.

But none of this is possible without grace.

I am often asked where my inspiration comes from when writing sermons. Of course, inspiration comes from the Holy Spirit, but it usually comes most unusually. Sometimes I am driving, walking, or going about the everyday tasks of life. Sometimes they are subtle, and other times it’s as if I have been hit over the head.

As you know, Nicky and I are renovating a cottage we bought last spring. If you like, you can follow our progress on our YouTube channel. Anyway, I digress. The cottage was built in the 1870s and is starting to show its age. Yesterday, my father-in-law and I were trimming out the windows on the outside of the house. There is no straight line anywhere to be found on this house, so we threw the level out long ago. We primarily sight by eye, but this can leave little gaps and whatnot.

The final step is to run a bead of caulking along the joints. This accomplishes two things; 1. It seals the joint and keeps the moisture out, thus preserving the wood longer, and 2. It covers all those gaps and other imperfections.

It hit me yesterday; that is precisely what grace does. We have no straight lines, and let’s face it, some of us are showing our age, but grace comes along, fills in all those gaps and holes, preserves us, and saves us, if you will. But unlike the caulking I had to purchase, grace is a gift freely given by God to all creation.

Wherever God is present, there is grace! Grace brought creation into existence. Grace birthed human beings, bestowed on us the divine image, redeemed us in Jesus Christ, and is ever-transforming the whole creation into the realm of God’s reign of compassion, justice, generosity, and peace.

Our only job is to remind people of that grace and show that grace through how we live as individuals and treat others as a community.

The minister I spoke of earlier, a United Methodist minister, by the way, did the exact opposite. He removed grace and told this young couple there was no room in the inn for them. He pulled the leg of the stool known as reason and, in so doing, sent this young couple away empty-handed.

The good news is you cannot stop grace. Grace goes where grace wants, and not long after this story became known, ministers, including me, were lining up to baptize the child and welcome the child and its parents into the arms of love through community.

Siblings, the world, and some parts of the church want us to believe God is not about love. The world makes our ears itch with its message that we must follow other ways. Paul is telling Timothy and us that God provides that way through grace that is freely given to all.

We have the option to show grace every day. Let us be the reason someone believes God loves them rather than the reason they feel God does not.

Prayer and Meditation

When the COVID lockdown when into full swing, I decided this was an excellent time to further my education on topics I had always wanted to study but did not have the time. Meditation was one of those topics. I had heard about meditative practice’s positive benefits, so I thought, why not try it? With so much negativity in the world, a little positive energy going out into the universe would be a good thing.

I had also heard that as a Christian, I should not meditate; I should pray, so the first item on my agenda was to discover the difference if there was one. There is a difference between prayer and meditation, the main one being prayer is talking, and meditation is listening.

Before we go any further, I want to clear up some common misconceptions about meditation.

  1. Nothing about meditation is anti-Christian
  2. Both practices help to cultivate a sense of gratitude and peace
  3. Prayer can deepen your meditation, and meditation can deepen your prayer

The Bible is full of passages about prayer. For example, Jesus’ disciples ask him to teach them to pray, and he teaches them what we now call the Lord’s Prayer, although in a different form. But there are also passages about meditation:

“Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” Philippians 4:8 (NIV)

This passage encourages the reader to “think about such things.” In other translations of this passage, the phrase “dwell on these things” is used. Meditating is to dwell on life, your present situation, a selection of scripture, or whatever it may be.

Prayer requires words, while meditation requires stillness and listening. The focus of prayer is outward, towards something other than us, while the focus of meditation is inward. Meditation requires one to listen inwardly to what is happening inside us and our present surroundings. Meditation is a deep dive into our being while prayer is reaching outward.

There is an ancient monastic practice called Lectio Divina, Divine Reading. During Lectio, the person reads a passage of scripture and then lets that scripture wash over them. Then, they listen with the ear of their heart and the ear of their soul for how that passage speaks to them. Lectio may be an entire passage, a word, or a phrase repeated over and over while the passage courses through the body of the one practicing Lectio. Lectio Divina is meditation.

Both prayer and meditation remind us to be grateful for all the blessings in our lives. Sometimes these can be hard to see; other times, these blessings are very present. This type of meditative practice can be done anywhere at any time. Perhaps you are grocery shopping and become grateful for the abundance of food produced for us. Or for the farmers that grew the food and the grocery workers who have set out the displays. Mediation, like prayer, can take many forms and be done at any time.

For me, prayer and meditation go hand in hand; sometimes, I pray and meditate. However, I do not see prayer and meditation as mutually exclusive; as I mentioned at the start of this essay, they both enhance each other.

In my previous essay on the Hunter’s Moon, I mentioned that this time of the year is a great time to start a new spiritual practice. If you have been thinking about adopting a meditation or prayer practice, this is the time to start. If you need assistance, reach out, and I can point you in the right direction.

The Hunter’s Moon

I so love this time of the year. Here in New England, the leaves are starting to change, the temperature has dropped, and the smell of fires in fireplaces is starting to emerge. I think fall is the most beautiful time of the year.

But fall is also a time of finishing up. The ancient Celts celebrated the New Year on November 1st, so October was the time for looking back and finishing things up. Of course, it is the end of the harvest, but it is also the time to reflect on what you’ve accomplished this year and focus on what you are grateful for.

Not long ago, we celebrated the autumnal equinox, that time of the year when we experience an equal time of light and darkness. All of nature is balanced, and it is a time to bring balance into our lives. As nature begins to slow down and prepare for the long, cold winter, so should we. Although many of us do not have to prepare storage of food and wood, we do need to prepare spiritually for the months ahead.

This year the Hunter’s Moon will arrive on October 9th. The Hunter’s Moon derives its name from the time of the year when the hunt typically takes place. Animals are in rut and are at their heaviest weight in preparation for the winter.

The Hunter’s Moon also has a spiritual significance. This is the time of the year to focus on internal work and self-reflection. In addition, this is a good time of the year to begin a new spiritual practice or get back in touch with a practice that has gone fallow.

The Hunter’s Moon is a perfect time to sit outside and meditate. The temperatures at night are cool but not yet cold. Spread a blanket on the ground, sit in the light of the moon, and just relax. Spiritual growth, goal setting, gratitude, and finding ways to slow down are all important aspects of this time of the year.

October is also the time when the veil between his world and the next begins to thin. The separation between the living and the dead becomes almost nonexistent. So take time to reflect on your ancestors and what they can teach us. Visit the cemetery and bring fresh flowers, pause for a few moments and listen for the voices of your ancestors in the wind.

We can learn a tremendous amount from nature and the passage of time. The earth has yielded its harvest, which will feed us during the long months yet to come. The changing of the leaves reminds us that new growth that comes from the buds left behind requires the shedding of those things we no longer need.

Take some time to slow down, find your balance, and remember what you are grateful for in the coming days.

Surprising Investment

Mark 9:38-50

In one of the Churches I served as an interim minister, I met a man we will call John. John was a wonderful and delightful man. He was dedicated to the Church and one of the people I could call on when I needed something. If I called John, he would drop whatever he was doing and rush to help.

Like me, John had come to the Church after being raised a Roman Catholic. There was not one instance or event that caused John to leave the Church of his birth; instead, it was after a long period of discernment. He felt more comfortable where he was now than he had ever felt before.

It was time for elections for the Church council to occur, and I asked John if he would be willing to serve. It felt right to me to ask John; he was, after all, dedicated to the Church. John said that he would pray about it and get back to me. After a couple of weeks, I asked John if he had come to a decision, and he answered that he was willing to serve.

After about a year, John came to me and said he needed to drop off the Council as he had determined it was not for him. He was constantly getting frustrated with the slow pace that the Council was taking. He wanted decisions to happen much faster than they were and felt like we were dragging our feet. He was also concerned that all we talked about was money.

John and I sat for a while and listened to all he had to say. I tried to explain that we needed to move slowly to ensure we were making the right decisions and that, unfortunately, the nature of Church councils is to be concerned for the temporal matters of the Church. The Council is the body that is responsible for the running of the Church and ensuring that all the bills are paid so we can continue to have a place to worship.

John said he understood but did not like coming home after meetings frustrated and having ill feelings toward others on the Council. So, again, I sat and listened and tried to offer wise counsel on the matter, but in the end, we determined it would be best for John to resign from the Council. I recall saying that serving in Church leadership was not for everyone, and no one likes to see the sausage made.

The problem was, serving on the Council had become a stumbling block for John. He would get frustrated at a meeting and develop feelings about others that were not charitable. In today’s scripture lesson from Mark, Jesus tells us what we need to do when something is a stumbling block in our spiritual lives.

I believe that Mark’s Gospel is underappreciated. It is widely believed that the Gospel was written by John Mark, who traveled with Paul and Barnabas and later with Peter. It is understood that what John Mark is writing is based on the teaching of Peter and that Peter is the primary source for what is written.

John Mark does not leave many clues about when the Gospel was written in the text. However, there is a connection to Rome, and there is no reference to the destruction of Jerusalem, so it is believed that these words were written before the fall of Jerusalem in AD 70, which would make this the first of the four Gospels to be written. It is understood by many that John Mark was writing this Gospel for the Christian community in Rome.

The Gospel clearly shows that Jesus is the Messiah but also points out that Jesus has come to serve and give up his life for all. There is no ambiguity in Mark that Jesus is the Son of God and has power over demons, heals the sick, and forgives sins. But Mark also points to the fact that Jesus is fully human, expressed through his agony the night he is arrested and the pain he felt on the cross. Marl also points out the secret nature of what Jesus is doing. Jesus speaks in parables and often tells those he has done something for not to tell anyone.

Parables are a helpful tool in teaching, although I sometimes wish Jesus would get to it and say what he was thinking. Parables require the listener to listen, really listen, and look for the clues being given. Parables also require those listening to think for themselves. Jesus is not going to spoon-feed his disciples; he wants them and us to develop our spiritual minds and the ability to discern what is right and what is wrong.

The other interesting thing about parables is they sometimes leave the teachings open to interpretation. I have said before that I believe it is the job of the Church to take these 2,000-year-old lessons and make them new for the present age. This parable talks about lopping bits off that bother us, but that is not precisely what Jesus was getting at. So, the challenge becomes, how do we make this relevant to those listening today?

We need to begin with a question. What keeps you from truly following Jesus?

I started with the story of my friend John and how his service on the Church Council was becoming a hindrance to him and his spiritual life. He tried all sorts of ways to deal with it but decided that he needed to “cut off” that part of his life.

Jesus uses some radical examples if your hand is the issue, cut it off; if it’s your eye, gouge it out. I would not recommend that for spiritual purposes, and I think there are other ways of dealing with what keeps us from truly following. But that is what parables do; they make us think. It is not always what is right on the surface that we are supposed to understand.

Most actions have a cause; something caused them to happen. Sometimes those causes are out of our control, but we can often control them. For example, I slipped on the ice because I did not put sand down or wore the wrong shoes. The action was falling; the cause was negligence. What this parable to trying to get us to do is to dig deep and find the answers.

How often do we say that person makes me mad? Okay, we might get angry, but it is not the other person that makes us mad; it is not even their actions that make us mad; we let ourselves get mad and then blame the other person. It is much easier to point away from ourselves than point towards ourselves.

Don’t get me wrong; some people make us mad; it sure might be us, and it might be them. The point is that we need to find the root cause, which is not easy. Getting to the heart of the matter is the focus of our spiritual life. Asking hard questions about ourselves and our environment is essential.

I often speak of how Jesus commanded us to love one another, and I add that it’s love and not like. We have to love each other, but we do not have to like each other. This is an integral part of our spiritual life and one that Jesus is getting at here. This idea of loving everyone does not require us to be a doormat; for our preservation, we sometimes have to cut people off. We do not have to keep toxic people in our lives. If that person constantly makes you mad, cut them off. If that person frequently drives you to have uncharitable thoughts about them or others, cut them off. If that job is unfulfilling or brings you to do things you don’t want to do, cut it off. Sometimes it’s not the hand or the eye that needs to go but rather the other person. Yes, there might be an underlying issue in you, but for the time being, it is okay to establish boundaries while we figure it all out.

When I was training as a spiritual director, one of my mentors described the spiritual journey as making a slow descent through all of the stuff in our lives that we do not want to deal with. I like to think of it as that place in our homes where we jam all the stuff when people come over. We all have that place. Maybe it’s a drawer, or perhaps it is a room. We jam it full of stuff because we don’t want to deal with it.

Our spiritual life is about opening that door and dealing with what is on the other side one thing at a time. If we look at the project as a whole, it can be overwhelming, but if we take it one small piece at a time, it becomes easier. We open the door; we take out one item and deal with it no matter how long it takes. Then we go back and repeat the process. We may never get the room empty, but we need to try.

So, what is that thing, or what are those things that keep us from following? What do we have in that room that we need to deal with? Do you need help dealing with some of the stuff there? If so, there are people who can help you do not have to do it alone. The spiritual life is a marathon, not a sprint, so take your time.

Amen

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