Honoring Thy Fathers

By W. BRADFORD WILCOX
June 13, 2008; Page W11

For millions of children across the U.S., this Sunday will not be a cause for celebration. Because of dramatic increases in divorce and nonmarital childbearing, about 28% of our nation’s children — more than 20 million kids — now live in a household without their father, up from 10 million kids (14%) in 1970, according to a recent Census Bureau report. Moreover, because most of these boys and girls see their dads infrequently (once a month or less), Father’s Day will offer cold comfort to many of these children.

Our nation’s epidemic of fatherlessness is just the most salient indicator of what University of Chicago theologian Don Browning has called the “male problematic” — the tendency of men to live apart from their children and to invest less emotionally and practically in their families than women do.

This situation has not gone unnoticed in America’s houses of worship. Religious leaders, particularly evangelical Protestant ones, have expressed their alarm. “As I review the latest research on family disintegration, I am repeatedly confronted with the same disturbing issue,” recently wrote Dr. James Dobson, chairman of Focus on the Family. “Boys are in trouble today primarily because their parents, and especially their dads, are distracted, overworked, harassed, exhausted, disinterested, chemically dependent, divorced, unable to cope or simply not there.”

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NBC’s Tim Russert dies of apparent heart attack

By David Espo and Laurie Kellman, AP Special Correspondent June 13, 2008

WASHINGTON –Tim Russert, who pointedly but politely questioned hundreds of the powerful and influential as moderator of NBC’s “Meet the Press,” died suddenly Friday while at work in Washington. The network’s Washington bureau chief was 58.

In addition to his weekly program, Russert appeared on the network’s other news shows, was moderator for numerous political debates and wrote two best-selling books.

The network Web site at first said that Russert died of a heart attack, but spokeswoman Jenny Tartikoff later said, “We do not know the cause yet.”

President Bush, informed of Russert’s death while at dinner in Paris, swiftly issued a statement of condolence that praised the NBC newsman as “an institution in both news and politics for more than two decades. Tim was a tough and hardworking newsman. He was always well-informed and thorough in his interviews. And he was as gregarious off the set as he was prepared on it.”

NBC interrupted its regular programming with news of Russert’s death, and in the ensuing moments, familiar faces such as Tom Brokaw, Andrea Mitchell and Brian Williams took turns mourning his loss.

Williams called him “aggressively unfancy.”

Our hearts are broken,” said Mitchell, who appeared emotional at times as she recalled her long-time colleague.

Bob Schieffer, Russert’s competitor on CBS’ “Face the Nation,” said the two men delighted in scooping each other.

Russert, of Buffalo, N.Y., took the helm of the Sunday news show in December 1991 and turned it into the nation’s most widely watched program of its type. His signature trait there was an unrelenting style of questioning that made some politicians reluctant to appear, yet confident that they could claim extra credibility if they survived his grilling intact.

He was also a senior vice president at NBC, and this year, Time Magazine named him one of the 100 most influential people in the world.

Russert had Buffalo’s blue collar roots, a Jesuit education, a law degree and a Democratic pedigree that came from his turn as an aide to the late Sen. Daniel Patrick Moynihan of New York.

One of his books, “Big Russ and Me,” was about his relationship with his father.

On Sunday’s program, Russert was to have interviewed Sens. Lindsey Graham, R-S.C., a national co-chair of the McCain campaign, and Joe Biden, D-Del., an Obama supporter, in a debate format as surrogates for the two presidential candidates.

Praise flowed quickly from those who knew Russert across the television interview room.
Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid said Russert was “the best in the business at keeping his interview subjects honest.”

“There wasn’t a better interviewer in television,” Sen. Barack Obama, the Democratic presidential contender, told reporters in Ohio.

Republican Sen. John McCain of Arizona, Obama’s rival for the White House, hailed Russert as the “pre-eminent journalist of his generation.”

Rep. John Boehner of Ohio, the House Republican leader, said Russert was “one of the smartest, toughest television news journalists of all time …. I can say from experience that joining Tim on Meet The Press was one of the greatest tests any public official could face.”

Carl P. Leubsdorf, president of the Gridiron Club, an organization of journalists, said in a statement, “It was a measure of the degree to which Tim Russert was respected in the journalistic world that he was the first broadcaster elected to membership in the Gridiron Club after the rules were changed in 2004 to end our century-old restriction to print journalists.”

“He was an enthusiastic member and a willing participant in our shows. His fellow Gridiron members join with all of those who knew and respected Tim in mourning his untimely death.”

“It is my sad duty to report this afternoon” that Russert collapsed and died while working in the network’s Washington studios, Brokaw said when he came on the air.

“He’ll be missed as he was loved — greatly,” Brokaw said.

The network said on its Web Site that Russert had been recording voiceovers for this Sunday’s “Meet The Press” when he was stricken.

Russert had dozens of honorary college degrees, and numerous professional awards.

He won an Emmy for his role in the coverage of President Ronald reagan’s funeral in 2004.

He was married to Maureen Orth, a writer for Vanity Fair Magazine. The couple had one son, Luke.

SCOBA Hierarchs Convene For Spring 2008 Session

New York, NY – The Spring Session of the Standing Conference of the Canonical Orthodox Bishops in the Americas (SCOBA) met on June 12, 2008 from 10:30 a.m. – 3:00 p.m. at the Headquarters of the Greek Orthodox Archdiocese of America. This session was attended by all Hierarchs of SCOBA: Archbishop Demetrios, Chairman (Greek Orthodox Archdiocese), Metropolitan Philip, Vice-Chairman (Antiochian Orthodox Archdiocese), Metropolitan Christopher, Secretary (Serbian Orthodox Church), Metropolitan Nicholas (Carpatho-Russian Orthodox Diocese), Metropolitan Herman (Orthodox Church in America), Metropolitan Joseph (Bulgarian Orthodox Church), Archbishop Nicolae (Romanian Orthodox Archdiocese), Archbishop Antony (proxy, Ukrainian Orthodox Church) and Bishop Ilia (Albanian Orthodox Diocese). In attendance as well were Metropolitan Maximos of Pittsburgh (Greek Orthodox Archdiocese), Metropolitan Methodios of Boston (Greek Orthodox Archdiocese), and Bishop Antoun of Miami (Antiochian Orthodox Archdiocese). Also present were the General Secretary and thirteen members of the SCOBA Study and Planning Commission representing all the SCOBA member Churches.

The Hierarchs held a fraternal and open discussion related to SCOBA Agencies, dealing with communications, education and mission. The formal request of the Vicar of the Patriarch of Moscow and All Russia, who is also the Administrator of the Moscow Patriarchal parishes in the USA (33 in number), Bishop Mercurius of Zaraisk to be included on SCOBA was presented by the Chairman, Archbishop Demetrios. He noted that the Moscow Patriarchate, through its Exarchate, had been one of the original signers of the SCOBA Constitution. After the Archbishop’s presentation of the matter, there was immediate unanimous agreement, in a spirit of fraternal welcome, by all SCOBA Hierarchs to welcome the Representation of the Moscow Patriarchate in the United States, in the person of Bishop Mercurius, to full membership in SCOBA.

In addition, both Archbishop Demetrios and Metropolitan Philip shared with the other SCOBA Hierarchs the positive results of their individual meetings with Metropolitan Hilarion, the newly enthroned (May 18, 2008) First Hierarch of the Russian Orthodox Church Outside Russia (ROCOR).

The Co-Chair of the Orthodox-Roman Catholic Theological Consultation, Metropolitan Maximos, gave a presentation on the status of the various Inter-Christian Dialogues. The meeting closed with an open and fraternal discussion of ecclesiastical issues that need attention.

Theif

Well yesterday started like any other day. I did a bit of blogging and then off to run some errands. We have a local warehouse club called BJ’s, I am not sure if those stores are everywhere or not. But I needed to pick up some things for the church and I can but in bulk there. So off I went. Parked in the usual place, went in the store, made my purchases came out and noticed that my GPS and iPod were gone. Some one had broken in my car and stolen these items. Okay I know it is partly my fault. I left the window down a little to far and I guess this wonderful member of our society was able to reach his arm, that his mother once took care to wash, and reached in a opened the door. And I left the items in the car in the first place. So I guess I deserved it a little. But it still hurts and I feel violated. The iPod was a gift so I feel really bad about loosing that. They even stole the little thing that goes in the tape deck so I can play my iPod in the car! How nice.
Needless to say I was really mad, Pissed I guess you could say. But then I started to think about it and pray about it. I have been preaching forgiveness for a while now and it was time to practice what I preach. In fact I think this will be my homily on Sunday. Forgiveness is not easy but we are called to forgive each and everyday. We are forgiven to the measure we forgive as it says in the Lord’s Prayer that we Orthodox pray at each liturgical celebration.

So now the rebuilding starts. I already purchased a new iPod and I am going to get a new GPS. I am going on vacation in a few weeks and I need it to get me where I am going. To the person who took my things if you read my blog, know that you are forgiven by me anyway. I hope you get years of enjoyment out of the items as I did.

Unicorns really do exist

THE legend of the unicorn has been punctured. The mythical beast with a horn protruding from the centre of its head, blessed with healing powers and a temper tamed only by a virgin’s touch is, in reality, just a deer with a wonky gene.

The discovery in an Italian nature reserve of a deer with a single antler growing from the centre of its head is being hailed as an explanation for the ancient belief in a horned horse capable of miracles.

The one-year-old roe deer was born in a research centre’s park in the Tuscan town of Prato, near Florence. He is believed to have a genetic flaw as his twin has two horns. The deers’ mother was brought to the park several years ago after being hit by a car in the Apennine mountains.

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Romanian Orthodox prelate threatened with excommunication for sharing Communion

Bucharest, Jun. 11, 2008 (CWNews.com) – The Orthodox prelate who shared Communion with Catholics at an Eastern-rite liturgical service in May now could face excommunication from the Romanian Orthodox Church.

Orthodox Metropolitan Nicolae Corneanu of Banat joined Romanian Catholic Bishop Alexandru Mesian of Lugoj at the altar on May 25, sharing the Eucharist with the Catholic prelate. His action outraged some Orthodox believers, and the Romanian Orthodox synod announced that Metropolitan Corneanu “may be asked to give an appropriate explanation” at a synod meeting in July.

Now another Romanian Orthodox leader, Metropolitan Bartolomeu of Cluj, has introduced a move to excommunicate Metropolitan Corneanu. That proposal will be discussed at the orthodox Synod meeting in early July.

The move to excommunicate Metropolitan Corneanu has inflamed new hostility toward Catholics– and especially Eastern-rite Romanian Catholics– among Orthodox hard-liners who regard any association with Catholics as suspicious. Critics have also raised heresy charges
against the Orthodox Bishop Sofronie of Oradea, who participated in an ecumenical blessing-of-the-water service in January, on the feast of the Baptism of Christ, with his Romanian Catholic counterpart.

Metropolitan Corneanu has said that he does not regret joining Catholic bishops in the Divine Liturgy. But the Orthodox prelate has rejected the idea that he is likely to become a Catholic, saying that he is loyal to the Orthodox Church and will accept the consequences of his actions.

Editors Note: That’s it let us use the very thing that should bring us together to keep us apart. Jesus must be very happy today. God save us from these clowns!

California bishop urges all couples to seek civil union first, then church blessing

For many years I have said that the church needs to get out of the wedding business. We need not be agents of the state. Go get married and then come see the church. Most other countries do that!
Andrus views proposal as ‘a way forward’ to support gay marriage rights
By Pat McCaughan –>June 11, 2008

[Episcopal News Service] Bishop Marc Andrus of the Diocese of California is encouraging all couples, regardless of sexual orientation, to obtain secular marriages before seeking the church’s blessing, as a way to support same-gender couples and “our continued witness to God’s inclusive love.”

“For too long the onus has fallen on marginalized people to bear the burden of inequalities that exist within the Church, and the decision by our state’s Supreme Court has given us the opportunity to level the playing field,” Andrus wrote in a recent pastoral letter to clergy and lay leaders of the San Francisco-based diocese.

Andrus also said he intends to serve as a deputy marriage commissioner, and urged clergy and lay Episcopalians also to “be deputized” and volunteer to preside at same-gender marriages, which are slated to begin June 17.

“There are over 4,000 civil same-sex marriages planned in a short period of time in the city of San Francisco alone and the city is asking for help in meeting demand,” according to Andrus’ letter, which was posted on the diocesan website June 9.

“The Diocese of California seeks to provide, by advocacy and example, a way forward for The Episcopal Church (TEC) so that the marriage of same-sex couples will be a part of our official marriage rites, without distinction,” he wrote. “Although TEC does not have canonical rites for same-sex marriage, it is our goal that all couples be treated equally by the Church, as they are equally loved by God.”

The Rev. Susan Russell, president of Integrity, an organization of Episcopalians committed to full inclusion of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender [LGBT] persons, called Andrus’s proposal “a creative response … a generous orthodoxy.”

It was unclear if bishops in the California dioceses of El Camino Real, San Diego, Los Angeles, San Joaquin and Northern California, would follow Andrus’s lead.

Bishop Jon Bruno of Los Angeles has said he is establishing a task force with other bishops as well as within the diocese to help clarify how the court decision will affect local congregations and to work through “policies and procedures with reference to upholding the laws of the state of California and the canons and constitution of the church.

In a May 21 letter Bruno reminded clergy and laity “that pastoral acts are personal decisions between clergy and members of your congregation. In the meantime, please remain patient and prayerful.”

Creation of a ‘holiness in relationships’ task force is underway in the Diocese of San Diego. Bishop James Mathes had said earlier that he is supportive of the rights of gays and lesbians yet “mindful that our church has not yet made the decision to bless same-sex unions. We are in the midst of a challenging but vital conversation about holy relationships in this diocese and indeed across the (Anglican) Communion.”

Bishop Barry Beisner of Northern California said that bishops in the six California dioceses have been talking to each other and cooperating with one another. In a letter to clergy posted May 25 on the diocesan website, Beisner wrote, “[T]his change in civil law does not change our policy or practice in the Church, or the Church’s definition of marriage.”

In November 2007 the Northern California diocese passed a resolution asking General Convention 2009 in Anaheim to develop rites for blessing of same-sex unions. “Until General Convention makes an official change regarding these matters, our current policy continues,” Beisner wrote.

Bishop Mary Gray Reeves of El Camino Real was away on vacation and unavailable for comment.

In California’s Central Valley, where the Stockton-based Episcopal Diocese of San Joaquin is rebuilding after splintering last December over such issues as the ordination of women and gays, Bishop Jerry Lamb said he is focused on restoring the diocese. “We have many, many other issues to deal with,” Lamb said in a telephone interview late Tuesday.

‘Prophetic opportunity’Andrus called the May 15 California Supreme Court decision a “prophetic opportunity” and noted that the church has worked for full inclusion and to further the rights of LGBT people for 40 years.

Continuing those efforts will include “bringing the witness of our LGBT sisters and brothers to this summer’s Lambeth conference,” the July 16-August 3 decennial gathering of bishops from across the Anglican Communion at the University of Kent in Canterbury, England, Andrus said.
Andrus also said he opposes a November 4 ballot initiative to amend the state constitution to limit marriage to a man and a woman. If passed, it would overrule the Supreme Court decision, which struck down an eight-year-old ban on gay marriage. The court on June 6 refused to stay its decision, paving the way for same-sex couples to legally marry starting June 17.

“The Diocese of California will publish advertising around June 17 celebrating the Supreme Court ruling and inviting same-sex couples to our churches for pre-marital counseling and nourishment in communities of faith,” Andrus said.

Full inclusion will also mean “providing leadership at next summer’s General Convention to bring our marriage practices and theology in line with our fundamental baptismal theology,” Andrus added.

Integrity’s Russell, an associate priest at All Saints Church in Pasadena, California, said Andrus’ actions “go the extra mile” by shifting the burden for past inequities away from those who are marginalized and by “offering straight couples the opportunities to step up and share that inequity.”

By “encouraging all couples to do the civil union separate from the blessing of the church … that’s now what gay and lesbian couples have,” said Russell, who said she’d just returned from preaching at the June 7 ceremony celebrating the civil union of Bishop V. Gene Robinson and his long-time partner, Mark Andrew, in New Hampshire.

Robinson and Andrew held two services—a secular service in which they became legal partners followed by a blessing of their relationship at St. Paul’s Church.

Russell said that requests for weddings have increased at All Saints, Pasadena, which has included a “One-stop Shop for Marriage Equality in California” link on its website, with several same-gender weddings “coming up quickly,” on or around June 17.

“We’re not changing our policy (regarding weddings), but we are opening it up to comply with the laws of the state of California,” she said. That policy require couples to receive mandatory premarital preparation and that at least one person belong to the church, with some exceptions.
California has an estimated 108,734 same-sex households, according to 2006 U.S. Census figures. The state offers same-sex couples registering as domestic partners some legal rights and responsibilities afforded to married couples, including the right to divorce and to sue for child support.

Proponents of the November 4 ballot initiative hope to add California to the list of 26 states that have approved constitutional amendments banning same-gender marriage. If passed, it is unclear how the measure would affect the status of marriages performed prior to November 4.
Russell called the court ruling “an unasked for, but extraordinary opportunity to examine what we mean by the sanctity of marriage.

All Saints has received support from its congregation and across the church, “from straight couples (who) … say how much they believe their marriage is strengthened by the example of other committed couples embracing the same values they do,” she said. “I like to think this is a whole new chapter for the institution of marriage to be stronger.”

Round Up

It has been so hot here the last few days that I have not felt like doing anything. The weekend was pretty calm and now the week looks the same.

Sunday after liturgy I rolled on back to the homestead for my nieces graduation party. She finished the 8th grade and now goes on to High School. That does not seem possible that she is old enough to attend high school. Left the party, went to a board meeting for the St. Andrew’s Society of Massachusetts, then back to the party for a few more hours. I don’t see my brothers all that often so it is nice to be able to spend some time with them.

Yesterday I came back to the rectory and had one more air conditioner to put in the window. Since the house was closed up for a day it took most of the day for the house to cool down, but it was still cooler then being outside. It is time like this that makes me think of people that have work outside. One of my parishioners works for a paving company. Imagine it is over 90 degrees and your working with hot tar! How about people that work on roofs! No thank you but thank you to those who do.

Today I am going to try and edit a podcast and perhaps record a new one. I have a parish council mailing to get done, a class to prepare for, and a community meeting at 5pm. Looking forward to that as it is being held at the new Irish Restaurant in town. I am also working a a few essays on church life so stay tuned.

Noisy nuns arrested

A group of nuns has been arrested in Romania for being noisy during a religious procession and for cursing police officers.

The 17 Orthodox nuns received a caution for causing a public nuisance during a procession in Iasi for the naming of a new bishop.

Thousands of people attended the procession for the new bishop of Moldova and Bucovina.

Police spokesperson Virginia Pralea said: “The nuns were brought to the police station for nuisance and uncivilised behaviour. When addressed by the police, they called the officers ‘sons of Judas’.” The nuns were released two hours later after being identified and given a written warning.

They are known for their critical views of the country’s church leaders who they accuse of living in luxury while their followers struggle in poverty.

Envoy says Orthodox-Catholic unity unlikely

Moscow, June 9, Interfax – A complete holy communion between Orthodox believers and Catholics is very unlikely, Russian Orthodox Church Representative to European International Organizations, Archbishop Hilarion of Vienna and Austria, said in an interview with the newspaper Soyuznoye Veche of the Russia-Belarus Union Parliamentary Assembly.

“I think we should not expect the complete unity of Orthodox and Catholic rites. The division occurred almost 1,000 years ago and it can hardly be repaired,” he said.

The archbishop said he does not think the differences between Orthodox believers and Catholics will evaporate in the third millennium.At the same time, certain theological differences do not hamper cooperation and possible joint protection of common values, he said. “We will not unite but we can learn to be allies and partners. We should not be rivals, we should be Christians who may differ in certain theological intricacies but have practically the same ideas about morals and social values,” he said.

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