John 4:5–42
I am not sure how many times I have preached from this passage from the Gospel of John we heard this morning, but I learned something new this week in my preparation. I guess you can teach old dog new tricks.
And that is the beauty of Scripture: just when you believe you have understood everything, it reveals a new message to you. This reminds us that its core invitation is always unfolding.
But, before we get that, I want us to go back to Ash Wednesday, back to the start of Lent just 3 weeks ago, for on that day we heard one of the great invitations of Lent, and it comes to us from the prophet Joel:
“Return to me with all your heart.”
That simple phrase echoes through the whole season of Lent. It is not merely a call to repentance in the narrow sense of feeling sorry for what we have done and the things we have not done. It is something much deeper. Joel is calling us to return, to turn our whole lives back toward God.
Not halfway. Not cautiously. But with everything.
And that invitation comes alive for us in today’s Gospel from the fourth chapter of John. This is a long passage rich with theological and spiritual understanding, and I wish there was more time to dig in, to go deeper, to spend a little more time just listening to what God is trying to tell us.
Jesus travels through Samaria and stops at a well in Sychar at noon. A Samaritan woman comes alone to draw water, which is unusual, since women normally come together in the morning or evening. Her solitude suggests some isolation from her community.
And then, in this unexpected setting, Jesus does something remarkable. He speaks to her.
Now we should not miss how shocking this moment would have been. A rabbi speaking publicly with a Samaritan woman crossed several cultural boundaries at once. Jews and Samaritans lived with centuries of mistrust and hostility. Men rarely initiated public conversation with women they did not know. Yet here is Jesus, sitting at a well, asking her for a drink.
But as is often the case, Jesus turns things on their heads.
The conversation that follows becomes one of the longest theological dialogues in the entire Gospel. Jesus tells her:
“If you knew the gift of God… you would have asked him, and he would have given you living water.”
At first, she misunderstands. Maybe she is taken aback because a Jewish man is speaking to her. But she thinks Jesus is speaking about ordinary water, the water just there in the well. After all, the well is deep, and Jesus has nothing with which to draw from it. But Jesus is pointing to something deeper.
He is speaking about the thirst that lives inside every human heart.
We know this thirst: a longing for meaning, belonging, love, peace, to matter, and not feel alone.
We try to satisfy this thirst with success, possessions, recognition, relationships, or distractions. Some are good but don’t satisfy the soul’s deeper thirst.
Jesus says:
“Those who drink of the water that I will give them will never be thirsty.”
He is speaking about the life of God flowing within us.
But before the woman can receive this living water, something else must happen. Jesus gently brings her face-to-face with the truth of her own life.
“Go, call your husband.”
What follows reveals the complexity of her story. She has had five husbands, and the man she now lives with is not her husband.
This, for me, is where I noticed something new.
In John’s eyes, she is a nobody; he does not even give her a name. Her gender, religious orientation, social standing, and personal habits distance her from Jesus and from her community. When reading this story, one understands that people in her own community try to avoid her. No one comes to draw water in the heat of the day!
And based on very little information, we judge her and her life.
For centuries, preachers and others have used this moment to shame her, but the Gospel does not invite us to judge her. In fact, in the world of the first century, a woman rarely had the power to initiate divorce. Her situation may say more about the instability and vulnerability of her life than about moral failure.
For centuries, this woman has been judged, and we do not even know her name. The focus is on her so-called sin, even though we have no idea what the backstory is. What about her other husbands? Where are they? Do they face the same shame that she does? My guess is no.
She lives in a male-dominated society, with no rights, as property of her father, then her husband. She cannot escape a bad situation or choose her fate. Marriages were arranged, with little role for love.
But here we sit, in a long line of people who have prejudged this woman. We know nothing about her; we do not even know her name. Yet, because she is a woman, she is considered expendable.
But this story, this passage, is good news for anyone who may have felt humiliation of stigmatization or the pain of being judged by people who only see what they want to see.
What Jesus does here is not condemnation but recognition. He sees her—her pain, history, and truth. He does not turn away but engages and continues speaking, revealing himself. He takes her seriously, maybe for the first time. Her community and welfare matter a lot to Jesus.
Jesus does not see her for what she has done; Jesus sees her for who she is, a beloved child of God.
This is the moment where the connection to the prophet Joel becomes clear.
“Return to me with all your heart.”
Returning to God means bringing our whole selves into the presence of God, not the polished version we show the world, but the real story of our lives. The broken bits. The complicated relationships. The doubts and wounds we would rather hide. All the stuff we do not want anyone to know about.
Notice what happens next: the Samaritan woman brings her whole story into this encounter. The conversation shifts to questions of worship—whether God should be worshipped on Mount Gerizim or in Jerusalem—and Jesus responds with words that still echo in Christian faith today:
“The hour is coming when true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth.”
Spirit and truth. Truth means honesty before God. Spirit means openness to the transforming presence of God.
And then comes the most astonishing moment in the story. The woman speaks about the coming Messiah, and Jesus tells her plainly:
“I am he.”
In the Gospel of John, this is one of the earliest and clearest revelations of Jesus’ identity, given not to a religious leader or a disciple, but to a Samaritan woman drawing water at a well. She becomes, in that moment, the first evangelist to her town.
I am not sure we understand how astonishing that is. Jesus revealed himself to a nobody, a person shunned by society because of her past. There is an echo here of his own story through his mother. Mary had nothing and, at great personal risk, said yes to God.
The Woman at the well had nothing, and Jesus gave her everything.
She leaves her water jar behind and runs back to the city, saying, “Come and see a man who told me everything I have ever done.”
Notice the unfinishedness of that statement, especially knowing what we know about her. “Come and see a man who told me everything I ever did… and loved me anyway!” She does not need to say the last part; however, her action implies those words, as she is filled with joy and runs back to town.
“Everything she ever did” is a long list; it is common knowledge in her village, it is always before her, in every judgmental glance or knowing stare from her neighbors. Jesus, knowing this is not extraordinary, but Jesus knowing this and loving her anyway, is the remarkable part. The one who knew “everything she ever did” and loved her anyway, saved her life.
And notice one very important thing, Jesus never asked her to confess, to turn back from her “sinful ways,” and he never offers her a word of forgiveness, just nonjudgmental love and acceptance, that’s it.
As she gets up, she leaves her jar behind. She came to draw water to sustain her life, but she left with water that would give her eternal life. She is now the jar that will bring that same water to others.
She no longer hides her story. The very thing that once isolated her becomes the doorway through which others encounter Christ. And many believe because of her testimony. Many are drawn to him and come to hear more; they want the water, too.
That is what happens when someone truly returns to God with their whole heart: shame gives way to freedom, isolation gives way to community, and thirst gives way to living water. The key message is clear—God desires the authentic, entire self we bring, not just the polished parts.
Lent offers us this same invitation. Like the woman at the well, we’re being called to sit with Christ and let him speak truth into our lives—not to condemn, but to transform.
The good news of the Gospel is that God already knows our story and still offers us living water.
So, the question Lent places before us is simple and direct: What would it mean for us to return to God with everything, holding nothing back? This is the heart of today’s message.
Not just the parts of our lives we are proud of. But the whole story.
Because it is there, at the well of honesty and grace, that Christ is waiting to meet us.
Amen








